Asian girl, worried about making friends in US College? - asian girl msn
I currently live in Asia, and start college as a freshman in the United States. I graduated from high school, international and had no problems with friends ... but they were all Asians (even if it is an international school, there were few non-Asian). Now I'm living in the U.S., I would be able to with friends, not make-Asians.
Although I was very shy at school, my last year I was outgoing with many friends. I was not popular or unpopular, and we understand each other very well with people who are not very close to me. I fear that this will change in the U.S.: (
I lived in the states of 3 to level 5, but that was the primary ... I have no idea how and# 039; 'll be able to make friends with the Americans during their teenage years! TV shows I see, my interests have to do mainly with things in Asia, I am not a big chatter, but I like to go and party (which is perfectly legal where I live my old age). My friends think I'm here as a joke, but sometimes anti-social because I do not text / MSN deal. All the advice as I could American friends for girls and boys to do? Not that I do not want to be friends with Asians, it's just that all groups of friends at my school basically divided into various ethnic groups and does not know how to make friends with Asians to: S would help greatly appreciated!
Friday, February 12, 2010
Asian Girl Msn Asian Girl, Worried About Making Friends In US College?
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You probably have too many worries about it.
And probably should not try too small anyway for the Americans. Many have eyes, what is really important to be lost in life. Too much, too much celebrated drugs, video games too much, too much text messaging, music and television ...
... Reading and not enough thinking, thinking, studying. etc.
It seems that already there ... appreciate and live material. Not come here and lose everything because of peer pressure!
Be your own person. Be modest, but firm when necessary. Be kind and generous. Be friendly and polite. Be careful and a good listener. Do Unto Others as you would to have you. Do you have the courage of his convictions, anditself is not what you think it should, because the whole world.
By doing these things, and my friends make for themselves. Even if you are not as arrogant or cold or distant, like you, believe me come, my friends, I wish you ... and come to you in droves. Maybe not at first glance ... But moving the word. Depending on where you go to school in the United States, you can, as an Asian, a bit of novelty. If so, are people already talking about you. If you are really remarkble believe, amazing, nice and friendly and polite and friendly, interested, and of course in other, to me, they are talking about than most.
And friends come. Just do not let them corrupt. People always want others to do what they doso do not feel like they are in the crowd ... or are the odd ball. Do not fall for it, if you think it is wrong. Use your common sense and wisdom. Follow your instincts. Pay attention to their education. Everything you have your parents taught you, is stupid .... As we shall see, and it will be clear to you, such as age.
You'll be fine. This is a new adventure. Enthusism not include fear and terror. We Americans introduced their pants one leg at a time, just like you. And also our shit stinks. We are nothing special. But in reality, it seems. Good for you. The grave and that is what differentiates you and makes others like you.
I hope that helps. Good luck!
EDIT: As I write this, PE2008 said: "The girls in Asia are very popular among American men who are very tired of scratching in the crotch, vulgar, hairy legs, women, feminists. You will feel comfortable."
Yes!
[shakes head in disbelief]
First PE2008 is significantly lower than the frequent failure of American men. As stated in the question, are the Asian women are not shy or passive, unless they want to be damn good. Most of them can really push the pistons more white men! Ah ... Stereotypes.
In any case, it is true that it's a fetish, an "Asian" for some white Americans ... as the PE2008, provided he is male, will actually see what he wrote. As a young Asian woman, andor should be aware of this and due diligence. Pay attention to the irrational fascination. To make a man, and the content of their character and not the contents of his trousers. If you find true love with a white man in the United States, more power to you. Note, however, so their parents and relatives may or may not particularly like the idea, not the price of basic cultural differences and how long-term impact of their relationship can ... for better or worse.
But honestly, who is to study here, my dear. Thus the study. Stay focused ... and a little ice.
Not necessarily avoid the relationship, but that's not so fast, either. The school is not really last as long as it looks. Do not look for so long because of theE is a large percentage of live, as long as you do ... and everything is relative. If you are doing in their forties, thinking back on four years of college, and you seem so little time, I swear I was standing on one leg.
Falling in love for Real Madrid after school. Decide what you dip the leak and drain. For now, the school that swamp. The escape from this and let all waiting.
Asian Girls are very popular among American men who are just tired of scratching in the step, vulgar, hairly legged feminist women. You will feel at ease.
Any attempt, this preference for men to dismiss for the Asian woman as a fetish "is naive and pedantic humor.
First, do not worry. Just relax.
Of course, it can be scary as going to a foreign country and people, but universities are one of the easiest places to meet new friends.
The best way to make friends just trying to know your classmates. Take advantage of every opportunity to start, talking and just talk. If you are prompted to do something, always accept the invitation (if it is something that you feel comfortable with). Even if your plan does not seem too interesting, at least it is a good way is to meet people. And if you really need help to find friends, you can add to be associations or groups to learn about people. Campus always have many companies looking for members.
And the Americans like to go out and party have experienced so much as in other countries, we have this in common. Good luck.
They are new friends! Do not worry about the shocks, I hate them all. They have a good time and do not worry. I wish there were more schools of Asian women! No, but seriously cool. Straight out of trouble and always has respect for others and have loved you. Join clubs or sports such as chess, mathematics, or something. Have fun, because if you will work great. That sucks, because the heads are knitting and our economy sucks. In any case, have fun and stay healthy. Good luck!
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